EFFECTS OF SMOTHERING AND CONTROLLING ON THE PSYCHE
I’m sure you’ve heard of the phrase smother mother. Of course it can apply to fathers as well. Smothering can stunt psychological growth and createl anxiety, depression and a lack of self-confidence. It’s an issue of boundaries – – if you’re too controlling with...
The Effects of Sexual Abuse on the Psyche
Sexual abuse is a very wide topic and unfortunately is happening in epidemic proportions, both in the United States and worldwide. One out of 9 females experience sexual abuse by an adult. These children are four times more likely to develop drug use and abuse, and...
EFFECTS OF PHYSICAL ABUSE ON THE PSYCHE
Physical abuse not only scars the body, it also scars the psyche. If you have been a victim of physical abuse, it would not be surprising if you suffer from some form of Complex PTSD, or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Unlike PTSD which may include a one time...
VERBAL ABUSE AND IT’S EFFECTS ON THE PSYCHE
As children, we internalize the messages that our parents communicate to us. In the case of verbal abuse, the message is loud and clear, and there is no ambiguity in the words spoken. Like sponges, children ingest these messages, digest them and get “sick” from...
THE DOUBLE DUNGEON OF DARKNESS: When BOTH Parents are Narcissists
The effects of narcissistic abuse on a child has deleterious effects way into adulthood and beyond into the next generation. As if having ONE narcissistic parent isn’t damaging enough, having two parents who lack empathy takes human disconnect to a whole new...
Tips to Create Healthy Goals and Maintain a Positive Outlook While Grieving
Grief can be one of the most challenging obstacles to overcome. While it’s not always possible to maintain your original routine, you can use this time to make healthy changes in your life that last long after the grieving process has ended. Below are some tips on how...
Caregiving Technologies Can Enhance Security and Autonomy for Your Vulnerable Loved Ones
When you are responsible for a senior loved one, or a loved one with special needs, it’s not always possible for you to be present for them round the clock. And even when they are adept at managing on their own, you may worry for their well-being and security when you...
Obsessive Compulsive Behaviors (OCD) As A Defense Mechanism
The Mental Health Foundation describes obsessive compulsive disorder, (OCD), as “a type of anxiety disorder characterized by intrusive and frequent obsessions and repetitive and ritualistic behaviors”. Symptoms of OCD may include obsession over contamination with...
A Group Approach to Recovery (Healing the Wounds of Narcissism)
Although one on one therapy is often necessary and individual to a person’s recovery, a community-based approach offers a substantial amount of space and support that can be extremely beneficial to the alienating effects of narcissism/ abuse. In conjunction...
The Guilt and Shame of No Contact
The “no contact” rule refers to cutting off all ties of communication/ contact with another to allow space to grieve and heal. This may be implicated after a break- up due to the abusive and toxic nature of the relationship. Likewise, this is often necessary when it...