NARCISSISM AND HIGH CONFLICT MARRIAGE
When one partner is narcissistic or has narcissistic traits, it is very difficult to have a healthy, synergistic relationship. The narcissistic defense is like a huge impenetrable wall. This wall makes it impossible for the narcissist to process feedback of any kind,...
Incest and the Narcissistic parent
Childhood sexual abuse by a blood relation is a widespread phenomenon that has lasting negative psychological and physical effects in victims. A meta-analysis by Stoltenborgh et.al (2011) suggested that globally, childhood sexual abuse occurred in 11.8% of the...
The Sexualization of Children in the Narcissistic Family
Where do we first begin to learn about sex? Each of us first gains an understanding of an intimate physical and emotional relationships by watching and attuning to our parents. We are acutely aware of the tensions as well as the loving moments (if there are any). In...
Why some become narcissists and others borderline
Narcissistic personality disorder and Borderline Personality disorder are bothdisorders of relating. They are dysfunctional means of seeing and being with self andothers. Thus, in order to understand why each manifests, we need to understand therelational cause which...
WHEN THE TRAUMA BOND IS YOUR SAFE PLACE
In order to heal from narcissistic abuse, whether familial or in relationships in general, it is absolutely vital to have a clear understanding of what the trauma bond is. We have to be aware of this because it is at the heart of the dependency that maintains...
Effects Of Apathy On The Psyche
There are many forms of disconnect however apathy is the most injurious. Apathy kills the human spirit and leaves a person feeling worthless and hopeless. Children define themselves in the eyes of their parents. If the parents simply don’t care or don’t care...
Seeking Better Mental Health
With all the craziness in the world today, it is a small wonder that so many find themselves dealing with mental health problems. On top of that, there is the nature of today's work environment and jobs and careers that demand we be available 24/7, a media-saturated...
WHY ARE PEOPLE SO DRAWN TO TRUE CRIME/Jeffrey Dahmer Netflix
More than understanding Who Done It, people are FASCINATED with WHY. The human psyche is complicated, to say the least, however if you take the full picture of Jeffrey Dahmer's childhood and his childhood wounds into consideration, the entire unfolding of his "psycho"...
Tips to Create Healthy Goals and Maintain a Positive Outlook While Grieving
Grief can be one of the most challenging obstacles to overcome. While it’s not always possible to maintain your original routine, you can use this time to make healthy changes in your life that last long after the grieving process has ended. Below are some tips on how...
EFFECTS OF SMOTHERING AND CONTROLLING ON THE PSYCHE
I’m sure you’ve heard of the phrase smother mother. Of course it can apply to fathers as well. Smothering can stunt psychological growth and createl anxiety, depression and a lack of self-confidence. It’s an issue of boundaries – – if you’re too controlling with...